Hi. I'm divorced after a long time. I have kids that I share custody with. I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship, but I'd like to have one. I tend to be shy, and sometimes I'm practical to a fault. I love spontaneity...but need someone that doesn't mind initiating it...once I get to know you...I open up.I'm honest and upfront and appreciate the same in return. I like getting dressed up and going out..or simply hanging out and bowling. I think shooting pool can be considered foreplay. It gives you the opportunity to talk, flirt, a little touching...see if there is any spark.I have a list of things I did a million years ago that I'd like to do again such as horseback riding, archery...who can forget summer camp? I've been told I don't look like the type that would enjoy camping, but you'd be surprised! Nothing beats sittin around a campfire listening to the water if you're near a beach...*sigh*...course, a nearby bathroom with a shower isn't unappreciated. Boating, canoeing....anyway...stuff!